A choice reputation

Werner at some point, did some investigation of his own, into the Prof’s going’s on, and discovered that the Prof had quite a reputation.

I must say, when hearing this – many months later, I really wracked my brain trying to figure out who else might have been previous potential “Cream Puffs”.

I eventually came up with 2 names. One was a lady who had worked with The Prof many years before, and one was another person at the university. Werner later confirmed that this was also someone the Prof had had a “friendship” with. We don’t know details, don’t have proof, and thank goodness it no longer matters. What did help – was the thought that this was a “pattern” with the Prof. It helped me even more to realize, the problem had not been with me, but within himself.

Werner warned Cream Puff about the Prof’s reputation, but she paid him no mind. She accused him of telling stories in order to make the Prof look bad. All the information Werner gave her was vehemently denied.

A while after Cream Puff had moved out, (remember she moved into the Prof’s house), Werner wanted to make arrangements to see his children. Since he was in the process of packing up his house and selling, he did not want to expose the children to the trauma of being back in the empty house.

He called a meeting with Cream Puff and the Prof – to arrange visitation times. This was the meeting of the famous coffee throwing incident – the one the Prof still touts as his proof of Werner’s violent nature.

Werner became upset during this meeting because the Prof and Cream Puff were talking nonsense, and not to the point arrangements about the visits. He can’t remember the in’s and out’s but I can well imagine how such a conversation would have gone astray under the difficult circumstances.

It was at this point that Werner threw the cup of coffee at The Prof, missing him (what a shame), and hitting the wall.


Werner didn’t “know” that Cream Puff had moved into the Prof’s house, but he had a good suspicion who the house belonged to. She had told him she was renting the property. Lies and more lies.

Werner went to visit the children at the Prof’s house, even confronting Cream Puff once when she was there. She was supposedly alone with the children, but Werner just had the sense that the Prof was in the vicinity.

"Tell him to come out," he told her, "and he may as well own up to the fact that this house belongs to him - while he is at it."
Out walked the Prof from behind a wall. Werner's 6th sense about the situation proved to be correct once more.

That brings Werner’s story up to date with mine, where we continue with divorce care.